ON RESPONSIBILITY: being in charge of your life

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Have you imagined why in the same environment where people fail, others succeed? Have you thought of the reason why in the same land where some people fold up their businesses, others keep expanding? 
At times, the same circumstances that get some people frust
rated, embittered, hurt and demoralized, others go through them in joy, peace and enthusiasm and still succeed.
 Why some are complaining about prevailing circumstances being too unfavorable for them to succeed, others are explaining how those same circumstances served as opportunities to expand their dreams.



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The same circumstance that is making many people travel abroad, others are using them as a ladder to climb onboard success. And the big question is what really makes the difference? It is simply RESPONSIBILITY - response-ability. The ability to respond to life situations accordingly.

Every one of us has all it takes to succeed, but we can only do so when we have the ability to label circumstances rightly and respond to them accordingly using the appropriate tool pulled out of our innate stock of potentials.

Every situation we go through in life leaves an impact on us either positive or negative depending on how we respond to them. 
While we chose how we respond to pressing issues, we cannot choose the consequences. You choose the action as well as the attendant consequence either good or bad and this is non - negotiable.

However, giving the appropriate responses to situations that confront us requires high emotional maturity. You must have perfect control over your mind to respond well to prevailing circumstances and put things under control. This is what helps you to cope with every circumstance you find yourself without losing focus of where you are going. This is what helps you to be more tolerant and patient with people without getting to hurt them or yourself unnecessarily.

You can't really go far in life if you still allow other people's attitudes to control your life - your joy, peace, attitudes and decisions. You must stop using other people's attitudes as excuses for losing track of your destiny. Remember, everybody is entitled to his opinion. 


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When things are getting out of hand, stretch forth your hand bring them back in place.

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When things go wrong, don't go with them. Many wrongs cannot make a right don't forget. 
In fact, seeing other people as the problem is worse than the problem itself. The moment you realize you are responsible for the outcome of your life, you will have a paradigm shift and begin to look at things more differently. In the end, you may even discover that you have been fighting the wrong enemy. 
The more you blame others for your predicament, the more you lose control over your life, and the less effective you become. Take responsibility for your life, now and always!

Be blessed!

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